April 13, 2010

I'm Just Saying! (Celebrity Sex Scandals)

I'm going to venture away from my normal style of post this time.  I know, I know, but we all have to change things up every once in a while.  Today I'm going to take a look at a couple of people that we all (or most people) know.  They have been involved over the past year or two in some scandals that have had a big impact of their respective sport, and in some cases their family.  Yet, let's look at it from a totally new new and different angle.  Maybe there are reasons behind it that my readers will understand, but typical folks may not.  Let's look at why they did what they did, or at least a plausible reason behind their activity.

First up...you guessed it...Tiger Woods!

By now I think everyone in the world is familiar with Tiger and his escapades.  He has a Swedish Supermodel for a wife, and yet he had countless affairs with other women.  What would bring a guy, who makes $100 million  year and has a wife like that, to step out on her and seek a sexual relationship with another woman?  Some of the women may have been very attractive, and some, well, maybe not so much.  It didn't seem to me to be women that just happened to fall in his lap and he had a one time fling. 

Apparently he was missing something at home.  My opinion...I'm going to take a stab and say his wife is too vanilla for him.  I think he wanted to spank her and she said no.  I think he wanted to tie her up and she said no.  I think he wanted to humiliate her and she said no.  I think he wanted to control her orgasms and she said no.  So what's a guy to do?!?!  Apparently you go find a woman that will let you do all the things you enjoy and need to do. 

I'm just saying! 

Next on our list is.....Ben Roethlisberger!

For those that may not be familiar with him, he is the quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers football team of the NFL.  Ben is pretty well known in the sports world.  A couple of years ago he ran into a situation where he was accused of sexual assault.  Sexual Assault can be defined as any unwanted act of a sexual nature that is imposed on another person.  This doesn't necessarily include rape, or forcible sex with another person.  Charges were never filed criminally, but there is an ongoing civil suit in regards to that case.  Anyone can end up in a bad situation or get falsely accused of such an act.  Maybe you were just at the wrong place at the wrong time with the wrong person.  Here's the problem!  He has again been accused of sexual assault on a woman.  I'm different woman and different location.  I'm begining to see a patern of behavior here.  Charges are not being filed once again, for lack of evidence.  Yet, where smoke keeps appearing, thee's probably a fire nearby.

So why does Ben keep ending up in these situations?  My opinion...Ben likes rough sex.  Maybe Ben even likes BDSM play.  I think he was trying to spank the women, control the women, make demands on them, take what he thought was his, tie them up, and possibly even punish them for not listening to him.  Don't get me wrong...I DO NOT believe in unwanted touching or sexual advances on a woman.  That is not what this lifestyle is about.  Yet, is it plausible that Ben either got the wrong message from a woman, or just tried to use his celebrity power to take what he wanted, the way he wanted.  Ben could be into a lot of what we in this lifestyle are into.  He just happen to try to act it out wrongly, or picked a vanilla woman that didn't apreciate it.

I'm just saying!

Is it possible that high profile figures such as these two guys are into the lifestyle?  Is it possible that they have needs similar to the rest of us?  Is it possible they enjoy the power, control, and ownership over another person?  We'll probably never know, but....

I'm just saying!!!


  1. Interesting perspective, and a good laugh. I think you may be on to something here!

  2. I like the way you think, DV! :) Although I would love to project Domly practices onto Tiger and Ben (i.e. slapping, spanking, tying up, etc.) and have thought about it myself (hehe...), I think what gets these guys off is (unfortunately) much simpler...power. In this way, I see that they have Dom-like tendencies. They like wielding power over women, women who are in complete awe of their fame and stardom, women who are willing to do (just about) anything to please them.

    From what I know of Dom behavior and preferences, it's hard to find anything comparable with the rush of being in complete control of a sexual scenario...and, in my opinion, that's what Tiger and Ben crave.

    So, to make a long story even longer, although I'm not sure that these guys are total kinksters, I am willing to risk saying that they are Dom-like in their need for power, control, and the submission that these women offered them. It's just another argument for not denying who we truly are...it'll only come back to bite us later! :)

    Love the post!
    -- Baby Girl :)

  3. Dom Tom...
    Thanks, it was definitely meant to be somewhat humerous, yet also have potential of being reality. LOL!

    You may be right. I think they are using their power to try to get what they want. The girls could be excited to just think they have a chance with them. Yet, they may get more than they bargained for, especially in Ben's case, once they got involved. It's the old cliche "be careful what you wish for...you just may get it".