June 25, 2010

Fantastic Ass Friday (FAF)

First off, I apologize for the lack of posting lately.  Things have been very hectic at home and work.  I spent this past week in Chicago on business.  It was very nice a a great place to go visit, but man was I glad to get back home.  Things are just too cramped and too many people.  I was very happy to get back to my little piece of the world.  Especially after spending 14 hours in the airport try8ing to get back home.  Storms kept canceling and delaying my flights.  I didn't think I'd ever get out of there.  At least I had plenty of time to hang out in the bar and watch soccer, or football to everyone but Americans.  LOL! 

I will say though, that in a city the size of Chicago, there is never any lack of eye candy.  Hot and stylish women every direction you look.  Actually more than one person can possibly concentrate on.  LOL!  Which brings me back to today's topic...let's get to the women and their Fantastic Asses.

June 18, 2010

Fantastic Ass Friday (FAF)

Once again the week has come and gone and it's time for me to end you week, and begin your weekend on a high note..with some Fantastic Asses.  Here's to all my readers and followers that look forward to this every week!

June 16, 2010

A Joint Venture in Blogging

I have commented fairly regularly on the blog of Neo Dom Tom.  His blog is A Neo Dom's Journey.  He and his lizard, as he affectionately calls her, have a unique dynamic between the two of them.  Things between them are a bit different than any other D/s couple or relationship that I read about on the blogs.  I have indicated this to Tom several times in my comments.  Sometimes I think I'm getting a grasp on their relationship, and other times I feel like I can't catch on to it at all.  Regardless of my inability to figure them out (lol), I thoroughly enjoy reading about their exploits and following them. 

I received an email from Tom yesterday.  In an effort to assist me, and maybe anyone else, in better understanding he and his lizard, he presented me with a proposal.  He offered to let me ask five questions, any five questions, and he would put them on his blog and answer them, for everyone to read.  How could I not accept such an offer.  Of course, do you think I could think of five questions to ask, right off the top of my head.  Well hell no!  So I am sending him a question at a time.  He has been sent the first question, and should be published sometime today or tomorrow.

I encourage everyone to read and follow Tom's blog.  It is a very unique and fun blog to read.  Our joint venture in questions and answer should be enjoyable as well.  Not to mention, we should all gain some knowledge and insight along the way as well.  I for one look forward to submitting the questions, reading Tom's answers, and seeing everyone's comments.

June 14, 2010

To be or ot to be...Collared?!?!

I had thoughts running through my mind about vanilla versus D/s type relationships.  In the vanilla world, you have the union of marriage.  In D/s, M/s, and any other combination you can think of, you have marriage, but you also have the act of being collared.  Maybe I think about it wrong, but to me being collared is something similar to marriage in the D/s world.  It is a union of the two souls for the purposes of this lifestyle.

For now I just want to ask about being collared.  I realize my question, which is just out of curiosity, is a bit subjective.  I also realize that a lot of couples were already married when they began delving into the D/s world.  Much my questions for my readers are these:

1. How long should you see someone before considering collaring someone or being collared.?
2. How much experience should you have?
3. Do you think it is like marriage, and you just know when it's right?
4. Do you consider it similar to marriage for a vanilla couple?
5. Waht are your thoughts on collaring?

I'm just curious about the subject and want to know what my readers think about this, the act of it, the symbolism of it, etc...

June 11, 2010

Fantastic Ass Friday (FAF)

Here we are at Friday once again!  I hope you enjoy this week's selections.  All hand picked exclusively by me!  Enjoy!

This week I'm going with Reese's Pieces!  :)

June 9, 2010

Realization Of The pleasure Dynamic

There comes a point in the progression of every submissive where they realize and feel a transformation.  Every new submissive knows that a D/s relationship involves service, obedience and direction, in addition to pleasure.  A lot of subs know there is an amount of pleasure that comes with being submissive, but there is something that they feel and come to realize that can't be taught.  There is something that they awaken to eventually, and it is a huge step in their mindset and being able to move forward and grow as the submissive they are and want to be.  What is it?  The true feeling and understanding that there is more pleasure in pleasing than being pleased.

This is something that can't be taught.  It can't be forced on someone and have the real effect the same as someone who truly feels it.  When working with a submissive, I am always delighted when I hear one say they have realized how much their own orgasm doesn't matter.  They have a feeling of emptiness with nothing but their own pleasure.  They are now becoming more concerned with the pleasure of their Dom, and knowing that he is satisfied.  Knowing that she and her body have been a source of pleasure and orgasmic satisfaction for him is far more exciting and pleasurable than strictly having an orgasm herself.  This is something she has to figure out, understand and come to grips with, within herself.  Until she feels it inside and on her own, it can't be fully comprehended.  But once it is, a major milestone in her submission has been reached.

Here is a prime example of what I mean.  I cam across this writing and it best shows this side and realization of a developing and growing submissive.  It is from an email that was sent to her Dom after one of her assignments.

"I just rubbed myself and came as directed.  You were of course filling my thoughts as I did it.  What was new was as the orgasm was ending, my hips were still moving.  The thought in my head was, "I need to know he has cum.  I need to have him cum in me.  I need to know he is satisfied."  I needed that more than my own orgasm.  I know this will end up in my journal I write for you, but I wanted to share it as the thought and feeling was new and fresh."

What a wonderful thing that is!  How great is it as a Dom to be a part of the growth of a submissive and to see her open up and feel new things.  To know you have guided her in a way that has enabled her to get to this point.  To know you have helped open her up to see and feel the submissive inside herself and to experience a brand new world she hadn't seen before.  It's just like having kids and seeing them accomplish new and exciting things and being so proud of them.  I'm sure all Doms/Masters have had this feeling of elation at seeing their subs grow and progress right in front of their eyes.  It is a great feeling to know what you are doing is making a positive impact.

The realization of the pleasure dynamic in a D/s relationship, and the sub truly feeling and understanding her own need to please, is absolutely fantastic.  May you all experience those "light bulb moments" in your endeavors that make you see things in a new light that you never had before. What a wonderful world we all participate in a the joys and pleasure that are part of it!

June 4, 2010

Fantastic Ass Friday (FAF)

I have been so out of touch the last week and haven't been around.  Boy do I have some catching up to do.  Between the holiday weekend last week, busy work and family schedule, and being down in my back, I haven't had time to do much of anything...or felt like it for that matter.  But never fear!  I would not miss our weekly asses to get the weekend going.