February 26, 2011

A Reader/Follower FAF?

Based on a comment she left me, I had a conversation with KittyKat yesterday.  She asked me about accepting submissions for FAF.   I told her that I have posted about that before, and have always been willing to accept submissions from my readers.  I even have one follower (Hedone) that sends me nice ass pics to use on FAF, as she comes across them.  One of them actually happens to be in this week's FAF.  (thanks Hedone)  Then I realized Kitty was referring to pics of actual readers and followers.  Such as self-pics, or pics taken by someone else of the actual person.

That got us to talking and me to thinking...Why not?!?!  Sounds like a good idea to me.  So, if any of you would like to participate, then feel free to let me know and submit a pic to me by email.  Also, I will have these rules in place.  I will post no names, blogs, or any other reference about you with any picture.  That way you can remain anonymous.  There will be no voting on the pictures.  I have no desire to embarrass anyone or make anyone feel bad because their picture did or didn't get votes.  This will just be for fun, and will consist of ass pics of you, by you, and for you my faithful followers and readers.  Of course you are all welcome to comment on the pics as you like, and it may be fun to see you all try to guess who's ass is really in the picture. 

Feel free to leave a comment or email if you have any questions.  Please submit all pics to my email at dauntlessvitality@yahoo.com.  I will use the utmost discretion with all pics and conversation between any of us.  I look forward to seeing if this works and how well you all like it and are willing to participate.

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February 25, 2011

Fantastic Ass Friday (FAF)

Another week has come and gone, and that brings us back around to FAF.  Thanks to all of you for your continued votes and support of my weekly poll.  I'm glad to know you all enjoy it!  Last week's winner is posted to the right, as usual. 

I think I have some good choice for you this week, so I hope you enjoy them.  I always do my best to make it tough for you to choose which one to give your vote.  I think this week is no exception. 

Enjoy and have a great weekend!



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February 18, 2011

Fantastic Ass Friday (FAF)

Welcome to another addition of Fantastic Ass Friday.  We had a good turn out last week with the special edition of male asses for you ladies.  The winner is posted to the right.  This week it's back to normal.  I hope you enjoy the choices, and that you all have a great weekend! 







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February 14, 2011

What Day Is this?!?!

Oh yeah...it's that day when all those lovers and couples shower each other with googly eyes, cards, candy, and flowers.  :)  I hope you all have a great day with your significant other, and I wish you all the best! 

Me?  Well...I'll be working, and well...not much else!  Boo-Hoo...poor pitiful me.  LOL!  Maybe some good fake porn will be on Cinemax tonight.  :)




February 11, 2011

Fantastic Ass Friday (FAF)

We got back to the normal weekly FAF last week, and we had a good voter turn-out.  Thanks to all that voted for their favorite.  Unfortunately only one can win, and that winner is posted to the right. 

This week I'm going to do something I haven't done in a while.  I'm going to appease to all you ladies.  Not that you don't like the asses I normally post, but I think you will enjoy this as well.  This week we are going to do all male asses just for you.  I don't do this often, but since most of my FAF followers are women, or at least seem to be, I thought I'd give you this special treat.  A little something to warm you up on a cold February day. 

On with the pics and the voting!  May the best ass win!



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February 8, 2011

No Turning Back

This is a subject that has come up several times lately.  It's one of those situations where it can be very hard, if not impossible, to undo what has been done.  I'm talking about venturing into this D/s world, or TTWD. 

I think that once you open your mind to BDSM, assuming it is truly a part of who you are, then it is hard to do otherwise.  Once you are here, there is no turning back.  It doesn't matter whether you are Dominant or submissive.  I know this from my own experience, my submissives, as well as those I have talked to over the years. 

This seems to be a one-way door, that once you walk through it you cannot go back.  By this I mean that once submissive has submitted and had that part of their inner self exposed and opened to this wonderful world, anything less just won't be good enough.  I mean that as a Dominant, once you have been here you just can't go back to a "normal" relationship and have it be enough.  I think it is very difficult to have a vanilla relationship after having been deeply involved in a D/s relationship.  there are things that we get from D/s, on an emotional and mental level, that we just can't get from a vanilla relationship. For most of us, no matter how hard we try and how much time and effort we put into a vanilla relationship, we just wont be able to get everything from it that we want and need.  There will always be an aspect that is missing.

I have had a couple of situations over the years that have been more vanilla than anything else.    No matter how I try, my Dominant side always seems to come back out and rear it's head...especially in the sexual realm.  I can try to just let things play out and role as they may, but my natural instincts are to take control and do things that most vanilla women may not be prepared to face.  Whether that be spanking, a hand on their throat, being given some type of order no matter how subtle, etc...  Being dominant is just part of who I am at my core being, and there's nothing I can do to change that.  It will always be there, and will always trying to find a way out and to manifest itself.

I think the same goes for a submissive.  As has been discussed many times before, many a submissive has either not understood what she was feeling and needing, or has denied it to herself, for many years.  Once she lets go of that, begins to understand and to embrace who she is, and then most importantly gets a taste of her submissiveness, she can see deep inside herself and discover things she only dreamed about before.  Once this happens, it is very difficult to go back to where she was.  Once she gets a taste of this lifestyle and realizes this is who she truly is, then anything less just won't be enough. 

Do we call this a problem?  Maybe, maybe not!  For me it is not.  I'd much rather know who I am and understand myself, then to always feel like I'm missing something.  I'd rather cross the line and not be able to go back, then to have never crossed it to begin with.  It's like firing a gun...once the trigger has been pulled, you can't bring the bullet back into the barrel.  Once you cross that line, there is "No Turning Back"! 


February 4, 2011

Fantastic Ass Friday (FAF)

Well, here we are at the end of the week, and you know what that means, don't you?!?!  Ok...yes it means it's time for the weekend.  And yes...it means the Super Bowl is only two more days away.  But it really means that it's time for some Fantastic Ass to view and vote on.  We haven't had any new pics in a while due to the holidays and the FAF playoffs.  But now...it's time to get them rolling again.  So without further ado...here are this week's picks!



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