To Be Well Rounded...

Even in a Dom/sub relationship, there are many aspects that encompass what is made into the whole.  You can have bits and pieces of BDSM, but if you aren't well rounded in your approach, then the relationship will be lacking on some levels.  Here is a little picture tutorial to explain.  Because as we know...many times, pictures speak louder than words.

Many of us enjoy some of this... 

And the some of this...

And then there are those that not only enjoy, but need some of this...

 

I'm pretty sure we all enjoy a bit of this...

And this...

But is you are going to have a well rounded relationship, it's not all about sex, total Domination, being tied and/or restrained, gagged and being made to do what your Dom wants.  If you are to be well rounded and have your sub's full trust, honor, and respect, you have to do some of this...

And it is vital to have precious time together like this...

It's those tender and caring moments that bring the rest of it together into a complete package.  You can't fully benefit from the relationship without having all of this.  Well rounded...what we should all strive for in our relationships.


DV