March 23, 2013

Blog Takeover

Back in September of 2011 I did a Blog Takeover.  I think it's time to bring it back and do it again.  I'm going to let you all take over my blog.  Ok...not totally.  Did you really think I would give up control?!?!  Even of my blog?!?!  NO WAY!!!  However, I am looking for your input.  Yes, from all of you out there that follow, read, lurk, and hide in the shadows.  This is a chance for anyone and everyone to join in, and still hide in the shadows if you prefer.  

I am going to accept questions to answer.  I'm going to take suggestions.  I'm going to accept topics and subjects on which to write.  All suggested by you.  So if it is on your mind, in your thoughts, something you have wondered about, etc... then send it on in.  Whatever the subject or topic, feel free to let me know.  I can't promise I will answer or write on everything that may be submitted, but I will do what I can. 

I will also take submissions for guest posts, for you to express your thoughts, feelings and opinions.  Whether you are already a writer/blogger, or have no experience whatsoever, feel free to submit a guest post.  Please submit all guest posts via email.  All personal information will be kept strictly confidential, unless you direct otherwise. 

There are several ways you can submit something to me:

1) Leave it in the comments section of this post.
2) Email it to me directly. (
3) You can use the ASK Box on my Tumblr page. (

When submitting, please make sure I know your submission is part of this request.  Feel free to submit as Anonymous if you like.  I won't publish any identities if you request I keep them to myself.  No personal or private information will be shared or posted without full authorized consent.  If you don't indicate for me to give you credit, then I will post as anonymous to protect identities.  

So bring it on!  Put them on me!  Let me hear what you have to say or want to know.  I'm hoping this will be a good way for us all to be open and communicate, both with what I say in response and with the follow-up comments from my readers.  I do love an open exchange from everyone.  No question is dumb or stupid...if you don't know something but want to, all you have to do is ask.  We are all here to learn.  Seasoned veterans in the lifestyle, or new to the doesn't matter.  

I look forward to hearing from you all, and seeing what is on your mind and what you would like to know.



  1. Golly DV -- I don't think I could presume to take over your blog!

    1. With all your stories you just might make it exciting around here. :)

    2. Perhaps you need some fan fiction? Let your readers tell their fantasy of a night with DV?

      that might get a bit steamy.

    3. Hmmm....wouldn't that be interesting. LOL! That could be a submitted guest post! :)

  2. crap. my mind's blank at the moment. But i would so love to hear what others have to say! PS have i told you I love that pic of a girl playing piano with the music notes on her back?

  3. Hmmm...I am curious, being a lurker a few blogs (including yours) of the BDSM lifestyle, what your opinion is/was of the "50 Shades of Gray" trilogy?