"I'm On Fire!!!"

How many times have I been told this in my life?  "My pussy is on fire!!!  God what you do to me!"  I don't think I have enough fingers and toes to count that high.  Oh wait a second, yes I do, and probably on one hand.  LOL! Sorry, I was having one of those fantasy moments.  In all seriousness though, I have heard it a few times.  Some have been in emails and chat, while a couple have been live and in person. This is something you just can't look away from.  the thought that you were able to affect a woman to the point that she feels her pussy is on fire and feels it burning through her body...well, that's a feat for anyone. 

I won't say that "The Burning Pussy Syndrome" (BPS) is confined strictly to submissive women, by any means.  Yet, submissive women are the ones I have dealt with who have shared this feeling with me.  And mostly it has come from newly discovered submissive women.  From reading the blogs, I know a lot of women have this feeling of being so aroused and turned on that the heat between their legs is enormous.  Yet, they have experienced this enough to expect it.  A newly found submissive seems to be surprised by this occurrence.  Maybe she hasn't felt it before, or maybe it's just been a really long time.  Either way, she seems to be amazed at the heat build-up and the level of arousal she is experiencing.  This doesn't have to even be by means of physical contact.  It can be felt just by chatting or by emails.  It's the mental connection with what is said, and how it is said that strikes a chord deep in the core of who she is and needs to be.

Earlier today I was reading the post Always in the mood... by Ariia on My Master's Slave.  In this post she was discussing the notable difference in libidos between herself and her vanilla friend.  I think there is a good reason for this, although I'm sure it doesn't apply to everyone.  Submissive women have a tendency to be very open.  they have cleared their mind of a lot of the barriers and societal parameters most women feel they must adhere to.  Once a woman realizes she is not restrained (no pun intended) by expectations, and she is free to think and behave as a submissive, and that it is perfectly acceptable to do so, then she frees her body to experience new sensations.  When the barriers are down, and and nothing is holding back her thoughts, no matter how raunchy or slutty, her mind, emotions and body will all respond in a positive manner.  It's a big step for a lot of women to accept that it is ok to not only like sex, but to want it and need it.  And in some cases...constantly.

Given all this, it's no wonder she feels heat between her legs like never before.  She has never allowed herself to think and feel this freely about her sexual side before.  She is now allowing herself to be who she needs to be.  She needs to feel the fire in her pussy.  Once she gets a taste of it, she only needs it more.  She didn't know her pussy could feel this great, yet achy in need, all at the same time.  She didn't know she could get this wet either.  This is her new drug...her cocaine...her meth.  She got a taste and now she's addicted.  The monster wants the drug, and WANTS IT NOW!!! 

Welcome to finding yourself to all the new little submissives.  This is only the beginning for you, and it will only get better.  there will always be bumps in the road, but they are manageable.  This will be one of the best rides of your life, so enjoy every minute of it!

The Body Doesn't Lie

This post is directed more at new subs than established one, but I think many of us can relate.

I had a discussion with a woman last night abut her desires and experiences in the BDSM world. Well, she hadn't had much experience or exposure to it, but what she did have she loved. She has only been involved in one relationship, if you even want to call it that, where this type play was acted out. It really wasn't even a D/s relationship, as much as the guy she was seeing liked to dominate her sexually. The main problem for her was that she was pushed way too far, way to fast, and she had to end the relationship with this gentleman, for fear of her own safety. I did congratulate her for having the strength to stand up for herself and know what was best.

Having given you some of the background, it is not really the point of this. During our conversation, she mentioned several times about her being scared and/or nervous during their play. Not for fear of safety, but fear of the unknown. Not having been involved before, she had no life experience in this arena and no idea of what to expect or how to handle things, mentally, emotionally, or physically. One thing she said to me really stuck out...how wet she got during play.

This was new to her. She had never experienced play of this intensity. Yet, it did not matter whether there was pleasure or pain involved...the intensity and anticipation made her wetter than she had ever been. I told her, that in my experience, this is a mark of a true submissive.

"The body doesn't lie!" You may fight against him, you may not be sure of the activity, you may say that you aren't into the stinging pain...but when your pussy is drenched more than ever before, then subconsciously this turns you on and excites you, even if you don't know it will. Maybe it's the actual physical nature of the situation, maybe is the mental. It could be the excitement of the feeling of his control, his dominance, your own submission. Regardless, the body doesn't lie. It's a natural response that you can't help or control. Your mouth may be saying no, but your pussy is screaming yes at the top of its lungs. Now don't get me wrong with that statement. I do not at all condone or support non-consensual activities (ie: rape or sexual assault). My intention is to point out that it may be new, you may be nervous, or even a bit scared, but your body will tell the real story.

This lifestyle is not for everyone. Some women would never get turned on by the activities we all love so much. That is perfectly fine. But, for those that do, or more so those that are wondering, this could be your own self-test. No matter how you feel, does it turn you on? Do you feel it between your legs? Do you get wetter than ever? Then this could be just what you need.


The Body Doesn't Lie!