A Fine Line

I am one of those guys that loves having a good time, no matter what I'm doing.  I like cutting up and joking around.  I can be a smartass and sarcastic, yet it is always in fun.  I tend to say that if I'm not picking at you, then that's when you need to worry.  That's just the way I am and my personality.  You better be able to take it and enjoy the joke.  It's even better if you can and know how to fire right back at me.

When it comes to a woman, I like one that can be sassy and feisty.  I like one that can take me picking at her, and fire right back with something herself.  A sassy and fun attitude is a great thing, at least to me.  I like being able to have fun and joke around and being with someone that can do the same.  If you can't or don't have the personality type for that, then we are going to clash. 

This can be a double edged sword when it comes to a D/s relationship.  There is a fine line sometimes for a sub between being feisty and sassy and crossing the line to disrespecting your Dom.  Where is this line, you ask?  Well...that all depends on the Dom.  A Dom and his sub have to get to know each other very well to know where the line in the sand really is.  It can be different for everyone.  Some Doms may put up with a lot more than others.  Some subs may try to push to see just how far they can go.  But then again, that goes for any D/s relationship, and on a multitude of topics and levels. 

I would much rather have a fun and sassy sub, and take the chances on her pushing the limits too far, than having one that doesn't fit my personality style.  It is my job to train her just how far she can go before she crosses the line.  Eventually there could be punishment involved for crossing the line, but until I am sure she has been educated in where that line is, I can't even begin to do such.  That would begin crossing over into abuse...but that's a total other topic.  Yet, once that line is clearly marked and known by both Dom and sub, then that's another matter.  She will know the consequences for crossing over.  Especially if she jumps over the line, as opposed to just sticking a toe over. 

There is a fine line between being fun and having a good time jawing back and forth and being disrespectful.  I for one am more than willing to deal with that.  I'm willing to be forgiving on that side of things, and maybe more so than other instances.  This part of a relationship, any relationship, is important to me.  Sass away baby!  I'll let you know when you have gone too far!  :)