We all want that feeling you have when you're with that special someone. They make you feel like no one else can. they give you butterflies in your stomach (the good kind) when you think of them. You get excited about the simple things, like even getting a text or an email. No one wants to be alone. We all need someone. So...today I'm here to offer you some hope.
I had an email discussion with one of my readers recently. I will respect her privacy and not name her. The basic premise of the conversation was that she is very submissive and has needs, yet she is alone. She is not in a relationship, she is not owned, she is not collared, she is nothing to anyone at the moment. She truly needs a a dominant figure in her life...in her real life...to guide her and make her into all she needs to be. I don't necessarily believe that there is one specific person, and only one, out there for us. I do believe there are people that a a really good match for us, and will fill every void we have. In my response to my reader, the main point I told her was to no settle for just anyone. Don't let your need for a Dominant override your sensibility and allow you to be with someone who may not be right for you. It is better to remain alone now, and keep searching for the right one. Otherwise, you're apt to not make it together, and you'll be right back where tyou started down the road. So don't settle for anyone or anything less that what you need and deserve. It is unfair to al involved.
There is a song that I really like, and it pretty much speaks to me along these very lines. I hope you like it as well. One of the best lyric segments of the song is this"
"You can't give up, (when you're looking for) a diamond in the rough (cause you never know)
When it shows up, (make sure you're holding on)
Cause it could be the one, the one you're waiting on"
Gotta Be Somebody - Nickelback (Dark Horse)
This time, I wonder what it feels like
To find the one in this life, the one we all dream of
But dreams just aren't enough
So I'll be waiting for the real thing, I'll know it by the feeling
The moment when we're meeting, will play out like a scene
Straight off the silver screen
So I'll be holding my breath, right up 'til the end
Until that moment when, I find the one that I'll spend forever with
Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me like that
Cause nobody wants to go it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there
Tonight, out on the street, out in the moonlight
And dammit this feels too right, it's just like déja vu
Me standing here with you
So I'll be holding my breath, could this be the end?
Is it that moment when, I find the one that I'll spend forever with
Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me like that
Cause nobody wants to go it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there
You can't give up, (when you're looking for) a diamond in the rough (cause you never know)
When it shows up, (make sure you're holding on)
Cause it could be the one, the one you're waiting on
Cause nobody wants to be the last one there
And everyone wants to feel like someone cares
Someone to love with my life in their hands
There's gotta be somebody for me, oh
Nobody wants to go it on their own
And everyone wants to know they're not alone
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there
Nobody wants to be the last one there
Cause everyone wants to feel like someone cares
There's somebody else that feels the same somewhere
There's gotta be somebody for me out there
