Fantastic Ass Friday (FAF)

Welcome to the last day of August.  The fall season is quickly approaching and summer will be coming to an end.  But, that means football (American Football) is starting back up, so all of you that are like me and love your college and pro teams can get geared up and ready. 

Last week's winner is posted to the right.  I have a special treat for you this week.  At the suggestions and assistance of one of my dear FAF blogger fans from across the pond, Blossom and her blog Beautiful Submission, we are going to use a different kind of picture this week.  We are putting things into motion for you.  Just in case your internet connection drags or the pics load slow, please be patient and let them fully load so you can see the action of each one. 

For those of you in that States, have a great extended weekend!  For everyone else...well, just have a great weekend! 

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Fantasic Ass Friday (FAF)

I know it's been a few weeks, but I am trying to get back into the swing of things.  My apologies to all those that have felt scorned by not receiving your weekly dose of FAF.  I will try to keep you all sated. 

The winner of the last FAF is posted to the right. 

This week I have chosen a few pics involving couples.  I hope you enjoy them.  Have a great weekend everyone!

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Revisiting an old topic...

First of all, let me say thanks to those that have sent messages and checked on me.  I know I have been absent and quiet for a while.  I went on vacation, then school started, and work has been busy.  But, I am alive and well and still kicking strong as always. 

A weird phenomenon happened to me recently.  It was a first, and I have never experienced anything like it when it comes to my writing.  Over a year ago I put one of my post from here, written in October 2010, on my Fetlife profile.  It got a few comments here and there, but not much more.  No big deal, and I never thought much about it.  Around Monday of this week a few people read and commented and it took off from there.  It was like a giant snowball that was heading downhill and gaining speed.  Over the next three days, that post has gotten 275 comments and an additional 875 "likes".  I haven't even begun to be able to keep up with all the action on it. It has been amazing.

I'm not just tooting my own horn.  I do have a point to this.  LOL!  There will always be a few people that disagree with a topic, but 98% of the comments received have been overly positive and thankful.  The post really seemed to strike a chord with those who read it, Dom and sub alike.  Most of you may be familiar with the post, but some may not be.  So, I thought I would bring it back to the forefront here, as there may be someone that this will help...or at least give someone some better understanding.

The post is...Submissive Emotions and the Dominant.


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Fantastic Ass Friday (FAF)

Welcome back for another Fantastic edition of FAF.  Last week's winner is posted to the right.  I will be on vacation this coming week, so there will be no FAF next Friday.  Sorry, but you've been warned ahead of time. 

I'm going with a lot of close-up shots this week, with a mix of color and Black and white.  I would have a hard time choosing a favorite, so hopefully you all will as well.  I do so love to make it a difficult choice for you.

I hope you all have a great weekend!

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Olympic submission?!?!

I was watching the London Olympics last night.  For me it's on of those things that certain games I enjoy and others I could care less.  At the same time, I can't quit watching because I just have to see who wins, and how they win.  The Olympics have control over me,and I don't like it.  I even found myself watching ping pong the other night.  I mean...really?!?!  LOL!

In all seriousness, I was watching some of the women's gymnastics.  The announcers were discussing the training regimen of one of the US Women.  I say women, but really the are all very young.  Anyway, they were talking about how talented yet stubborn she can be.  It's just part of her personality.  Her coach will push...she will push back...her coach will push more, etc...  That was almost word for word how they described it.  Sounds kind of familiar, doesn't it?

It takes a very strong coach to be able to train and push a gymnast like her.  To stand up to her to make her be better.  To make her become the best she can be.  To push her past what she wants to do and thinks is necessary, in order to become more than she ever thought she could be.  For the coach, I'm sure it can be very trying at times, yet it is the coach's job to not let her get the upper hand, and to keep her on track, improving, and progressing.

I think you can see where I'm going with this.  As a Dominant, especially for a strong willed, stubborn, head strong submissive, you must be able to stand your ground and push.  When you feel resistance, and feel her push back, you can't give in.  You must stand your ground.  You are doing her a disservice by giving in, and thereby letting her begin to control the situation.  Ultimately she needs this control from you, and needs your Dominance.  That is why she is here in the first place.  She may not always like it, but it is for her own good and to make her better...to help her grow and progress. It's in seeing the fruits of your labor that she will trust and respect you more for standing up and not giving in.  This is what she needs from you most.

But I'm sure none of you know anything about strong willed stubborn women...right?  LOL!

So, as a Dominant, be her coach.  Be her lover.  Be her rock to lean on.  Be strong for her.  this is what she wants and needs from you.  She pushes back to make sure you are standing your ground.  It's a test.  Don't fail the test.  Push her to be her best and allow her to be more than she knew she could be.  Be her coach and together the two of you just might win the equivalent of a gold medal together.