tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5852181366292579823.post736398257920329039..comments2023-10-01T07:24:57.004-05:00Comments on A Dauntless Journey: Losing the Thrill? (Formspring Question)DauntlessVitalityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10351897046636302746noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5852181366292579823.post-1606063568948864102012-11-10T13:56:24.935-06:002012-11-10T13:56:24.935-06:00I can relate to this concern as well.
As a new su...I can relate to this concern as well.<br /><br />As a new submissive this is a question that lingers in my mind pretty frequently. Perhaps experienced s types deal with it as well? <br /><br />From my newbie perspective you’re just not sure what this is all about. And (as you, DV, have made clear before) sometimes the thought or feelings conveyed cannot be trusted until they are actually experienced. And (as you, DV, have made clear before) sometimes this just takes time. In the meantime, though, we long to be your desired one. In the beginning, we are shedding light on a newly discovered or opened part of ourselves and then add to it that we are trying to figure out what it is Doms are really getting out of all this. Could it possibly be that you have no ulterior motive than to have us, just us? Uh, what?<br /><br />This is just my opinion but, it can be overwhelming & intense. I guess that is why the communication and the honesty are so important. And to the questioner I would say, make the leap. What have you to lose? If you let your guard down, settle into your new submission and you are no longer his “entertainment” through the “breaking in”- the sooner you know the better. <br /><br />In the end, it’s a lesson and the majority of life’s lessons involve making mistakes or experiencing pain. You will heal & come out as a better person and submissive after all is said and done. Best wishes. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5852181366292579823.post-75683359321627481112012-11-09T12:25:12.134-06:002012-11-09T12:25:12.134-06:00I suppose its all a matter of how someone is defin...I suppose its all a matter of how someone is defining "breaking someone" for us (me and the bossman) its something that has a positive outcome, to aid in getting those walls down, not just for me and him but to the benefit of us both.<br /><br />The thrill should be ongoing as the relationship is explored together.<br /><br />x<br /><br />torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5852181366292579823.post-39536971730366971312012-11-09T11:24:16.984-06:002012-11-09T11:24:16.984-06:00Great question and reply.. I agree communication i...Great question and reply.. I agree communication is key. And no matter how much we as subs relinquish our power and will, we need to hold on to our intuition and trust our gut too. Any one who looks to "break" someone else and then leave is a predator and does not deserve our attention at all whatsoever.<br /><br />hugs,<br /><br />kKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08961868034831709731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5852181366292579823.post-91803058278269077572012-11-09T11:05:31.603-06:002012-11-09T11:05:31.603-06:00i must admit i read this question with horror.
t...i must admit i read this question with horror. <br /><br />thanks for that answer.. it's so true.. .that a D/s relationship can only ever get more deep and fulfilling... i don't think there can ever be a "finish line" for submission. <br /><br />Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.com