tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5852181366292579823.post5197462636876274370..comments2023-10-01T07:24:57.004-05:00Comments on A Dauntless Journey: It's Not Change...It's Evolution...DauntlessVitalityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10351897046636302746noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5852181366292579823.post-67326166132792469022015-04-19T08:07:29.991-05:002015-04-19T08:07:29.991-05:00DV,
I have been lurking for some time.
Thanx for...DV,<br /><br />I have been lurking for some time.<br /><br />Thanx for sticking your head out on so many posts. <br />Explaining how vulnerability can be used as key in this all was very insightful. The last paragraph of this post was spot on for me.<br /><br />Thanx !Mr.Midashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10797875966054737821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5852181366292579823.post-45135772758903168042015-02-16T12:08:04.623-06:002015-02-16T12:08:04.623-06:00This is an incredibly wonderful post. I completel...This is an incredibly wonderful post. I completely agree and understand your intentions. Evolution is exactly what is happening in me, my Mistress Wife and in our loving FLM. When we first decide to venture into this unbelievably wonderful lifestyle, I suppose each of us felt the pressure to be able to limit things so that we would feel safer about our venture into the unknown. Some of the limits I know I have/had may have had as much to do with my insecurities about how I (or my wife) would feel about even considering them. Limits are a generally sacred thing when discussing them. The things that you list as limits, and sometimes even more telling, the things that are not on your list of limits have a certain implication that goes along with it. <br /><br />take punishment for example. The sexy notion of being lightly spanked is appealing to just about everyone. The sexy notion of being heavily spanked is still appealing to most, even though when it is happening and it is stingy and ouchy, one is hopeful that it will end soon. I am in this category. That being said, I know in my heart that I have evolved into knowing that in order for our relationship to continue to grow, that I must understand and know that I will be subject to the kind of punishments that I may have never considered in the past. Do I want those punishments? Yes and no. Yes in the sense that I know it is and will continue to be an important part of our evolution event though logically it will evolve into the kind of punishments that leave me sobbing, bruised and sore, all of which doesn't happen now. Sobbing, bruised and sore where, in a sense, limits when we started .... but if i were asked now, are no longer. <br /><br />Another example of my evolution is the idea of being required to consume my own ejaculate. Do I want to? Consciously I can say no. Sub consciously, a know that when I am reading about a FLM/FLR, wherein it is a standard rule that whenever the submissive male ejaculates, he is required to consume it as a symbolic gesture of his submission ... I get an erection. I have been able to figure out that the act of eating my cum is not at all something sexy enough to arouse me, but rather the requirement, the expectation that I must in order to demonstrate my devotion and submission to my Mistress Wife is unbelievably arousing. Skin in the game so to speak. <br /><br />Evolution, yeah what an incredibly great and simple way to describe it!<br /><br />tank you again for your incredible post.sub hub in phxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17489169642204094414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5852181366292579823.post-29237221051053850392015-02-15T11:34:10.685-06:002015-02-15T11:34:10.685-06:00This has come at a perfect time for me. I have not...This has come at a perfect time for me. I have noticed some evolving over here (interesting that I haven't thought of it as change--it just doesn't feel that way, change seems more abrupt), and it does feel odd. It's unexpected, yet feels natural, and I think for some reason it has shaken my confidence... <br /><br />I'm sure to do some over-thing on the subject. :)<br /><br />So nice to see a post from you, as always. Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07931554793023459482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5852181366292579823.post-38404310192193389952015-02-15T11:06:12.838-06:002015-02-15T11:06:12.838-06:00"For instance, a submissive may be more than ..."For instance, a submissive may be more than willing to take pain and suffer for her Dominant, and even find pleasure in doing so, but that may not mean she is a lover of pain or a masochist. It is all because of the relationship they have together."<br /><br />This describes us perfectly!! little girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.com