I exchanged an email with my slave yesterday about the things I am thankful for in having her as mine. Granted it was a bit on the naughty side and had pictures from Tumblr attached to it, but there was some seriousness to it as well. I am very thankful for her, for all she is to me, all she gives to me, all she has been willing to have an open mind about and learn, and all she still has the potential to be and become. She has com a long way since we first started talking several yeas ago. When I stop to look back on where we were and where we are now it it light years apart. She has helped me grow and become more as well,an for that I am most thankful.
Just as in everyday life, in this lifestyle we have to be thankful for what we have. So many times we look at things from the point of view of what we don't have and wish we did. We may look at or worry about what lies ahead instead of looking at what we have now and is right in front of us. We can become complacent with where we are and take it for granted because we are too concerned about what is to come or what we wish we had instead. I think it's important to take a minute to stop and look at what we have now and be very thankful for it.
In this lifestyle, I think it is also important to give back when we have the opportunity. There are many that struggle with this, have questions, are looking for advice, or whatever the case may be. We should take the time when the situation presents itself to try to help someone else learn, better understand, or lend an ear.
I get contacted by Dominants and submissives alike looking for help. Maybe they have a specific question. Maybe they feel lost and are looking for answers. Maybe they need to know that wanting this lifestyle is not wrong and need some encouragement and support. Maybe they are looking for advice on how to do a specific scene. Whatever it may be, I am always happy to help, and enjoy doing so as well. Yet, beyond that, I think it is also our duty to help. My slave specifically understands that it is her place to help others if asked, and I expect that from her. She has a lot of experience to be able to draw on to offer advice, teach others, and help people understand more clearly. There have been times I have sent someone to her to talk to because I thought she could help, just as she has sent people to me.
Even all of us that have blogs, whether it i our direct intention or not, are helping others by sharing our experiences, the good and bad times, and what we face in this. This gives others a chance to read what we write and draw on that for their own benefit. So many times I have seen the comments on a blog post that tells the writer how much they appreciate them sharing their experiences and struggles because it helps them know they aren't alone, or it was a topic that fit their life at the time and made a huge difference. When that happens we should be proud that we were able to share through our blog and it made a difference for someone.
I am thankful I am able to help others learn about this lifestyle. That I am in a place where I can interact with others and teach them what this lifestyle really is about and can be. Many times I learn more myself in helping others, as well as the gratification of knowing I was able to help. I hope you all can help when you have the opportunity and make this lifestyle be better for someone else. I hope you are thankful the opportunity to be able to help and find some enjoyment in doing so. I know I do and my door is always open for whatever or whoever may come along. So come on in, have a seat, and stay a while. I only require an open mind and willingness to face what you may find.
~DV~
Just as in everyday life, in this lifestyle we have to be thankful for what we have. So many times we look at things from the point of view of what we don't have and wish we did. We may look at or worry about what lies ahead instead of looking at what we have now and is right in front of us. We can become complacent with where we are and take it for granted because we are too concerned about what is to come or what we wish we had instead. I think it's important to take a minute to stop and look at what we have now and be very thankful for it.
In this lifestyle, I think it is also important to give back when we have the opportunity. There are many that struggle with this, have questions, are looking for advice, or whatever the case may be. We should take the time when the situation presents itself to try to help someone else learn, better understand, or lend an ear.
I get contacted by Dominants and submissives alike looking for help. Maybe they have a specific question. Maybe they feel lost and are looking for answers. Maybe they need to know that wanting this lifestyle is not wrong and need some encouragement and support. Maybe they are looking for advice on how to do a specific scene. Whatever it may be, I am always happy to help, and enjoy doing so as well. Yet, beyond that, I think it is also our duty to help. My slave specifically understands that it is her place to help others if asked, and I expect that from her. She has a lot of experience to be able to draw on to offer advice, teach others, and help people understand more clearly. There have been times I have sent someone to her to talk to because I thought she could help, just as she has sent people to me.
Even all of us that have blogs, whether it i our direct intention or not, are helping others by sharing our experiences, the good and bad times, and what we face in this. This gives others a chance to read what we write and draw on that for their own benefit. So many times I have seen the comments on a blog post that tells the writer how much they appreciate them sharing their experiences and struggles because it helps them know they aren't alone, or it was a topic that fit their life at the time and made a huge difference. When that happens we should be proud that we were able to share through our blog and it made a difference for someone.
I am thankful I am able to help others learn about this lifestyle. That I am in a place where I can interact with others and teach them what this lifestyle really is about and can be. Many times I learn more myself in helping others, as well as the gratification of knowing I was able to help. I hope you all can help when you have the opportunity and make this lifestyle be better for someone else. I hope you are thankful the opportunity to be able to help and find some enjoyment in doing so. I know I do and my door is always open for whatever or whoever may come along. So come on in, have a seat, and stay a while. I only require an open mind and willingness to face what you may find.
~DV~